Are You a Good Homemaker?

What makes a good homemaker? Scrolling through social media and seeing immaculate homes, perfectly dressed children, and fancy meals – it can make us wonder if we are doing enough.

But it’s like asking what makes a good chef. You have to get more specific. Sushi chef? Pastry chef? The success of a chef is dependent on where they work, just like the success of a homemaker depends on the home and family they serve.

As stay at home mothers we have the blessing of being our own bosses, but even the CEO answers to a board of directors. Our boards consist of our husbands and children. They help determine our priorities. Their needs shape the way we fulfill our duties and where we put our energy.

So if you find yourself wondering if what you are doing is enough, don’t look outside of your home for the answer. Look to your family. Are they happy? Healthy? Loved? Safe? Your life doesn’t have to look cookie cutter to answer those questions with a yes. Your home can be a little messy. The decor can be outdated. Your kids can look a little feral. Your meals can be simple.

Determine your priorities with your family in mind and serve them with all of your heart. Do it for the glory of God. That is what makes you a good keeper of your home. That is what blesses your husband and children.